There are certain traits we look for in our leaders at all levels of society. We expect leaders, particularly those that seek high office, to be the best of us and to exhibit a code of conduct that we can all look to for inspiration. History has shown that it is difficult for leaders to live up to our expectations. Indeed, it is difficult for any of us, as citizens, to live up to some expectations ourselves. Even so, what we seek in our leaders are ideals that have defined, and will continue to define, the character of our society.  There are many good and talented people among us and as we seek leadership, we need to be mindful that a good person is not necessarily a perfect person when viewed through the lens of our individual life experiences. We do the best we can; we make imperfect choices, but choose we must. And as we make choices, what are the attributes that matter to us?

What matters to me are many of the traits that I have seen in neighbors, friends, and family. The mechanic who has worked on my cars for decades has always been honest and fair in our dealings. The contractor who has worked on my house has always been hard-working, competent, and on time. The nurse practitioner who helps guide me through the travails of aging has always been respectful. Men and women who have served in the military to stand on the wall and protect the rest of us have always been courageous. These, and so many more, are the things that matter to me.

Honesty Matters

Integrity Matters

Competence Matters

Fairness Matters

Respect Matters

Honor Matters

Trust Matters

Empathy Matters

Courage Matters

by Kevin Deeny